Suzie
@SuzieQ
1 year ago
My top green flags. Falling head over feet.

1. Sharing is caring - Food, jokes, stories, vulnerabilities, needs, and wants.
2. Just the two of us - Creating an idiosyncratic language that only the two of you understand. Using terms of endearment other than 'babe', or 'baby' that are special to you both.
3. NIN - Understanding that love is not enough. A relationship will ebb, and flow.
4. Sticky tape - Spending time apart encourages self growth. It's okay to have different likes, and hobbies.
5. Same, same, but different - Having the same outlooks in life. It may not work out if you are looking for different things.
6. To agree, or not to agree - Not being afraid to disagree. It says a lot. You don't feel judged you on your thoughts, or opinions.
7. Yes, and yes - They treat you and the people around you with kindness, and respect. Family, friends, kids, and wait staff.
8. It's the little things - They get your quirky sense of humour. The brand of chocolate you eat. That dish from that restaurant you can't remember what it was called.